There are no words to express my deepest, heart-felt sympathy to all of the family and friends. I cannot began to really understand your grief..but I do know it must cut you all so deeply. Memories of Spencer are something that can never be taken away fr any of you and I hope in time those memories will make you smile again as you remember Spencer. May you all have the strength to cope in the many days, years ahead, support each other, remember tears are ok, and all experience grief in their own way and their own time. There is no right or wrong way. I am remembering you all in my prayers, God Bless you all.